Delay doesn’t mean failure. Just because you’re delayed in life due to certain situations doesn’t mean you’re a failure. Sometimes, delay tests our perseverance and resilience, and how we handle life. It also tests us on how we face the world despite all the delays we have gone through or are currently going through. Delay sometimes saves us from things that might hurt us or even destroy us.
Are you familiar with the burnt toast theory? The burnt toast theory goes like this: It’s early morning, and you’re preparing breakfast. The first slice of bread you toast ends up burnt, and you’re forced to start over. This setback causes a delay as you toast another slice. When you arrive at the bus stop, you realize you missed the first bus, and you blame the situation earlier because if the first bread didn’t get burnt, you would not have missed the bus. However, later that day, you find out that the bus you missed was held up by thieves.
That seemingly insignificant burnt toast incident from that random morning ended up saving you that day. It serves as a reminder that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
The burnt toast theory shows that sometimes, delay actually saves us from something. Setbacks can act as a catalyst for new opportunities that are truly meant for us. Missing out on certain opportunities doesn’t signify failure but rather a redirection towards something better.
Reflect on the setbacks we've faced in our life. Often, these moments of delay provide us with valuable lessons and experiences that we wouldn't have gained otherwise. Embrace each delay as an essential part of your unique journey.
Remember that success is not defined by the speed at which you reach your goals, but by the determination and resilience you exhibit along the way. Each setback is an opportunity to learn, grow, and adapt. Embrace the journey, knowing that every twist and turn is shaping you into a stronger and more capable individual.
You are not late. You're not left behind. You're actually just on time, perfectly at your own pace.
